Male Impotence Myths

   

  Hippocrates, the father of medicine, said: "There are in fact two things, science and opinion, the former begets knowledge, the latter ignorance." These words still ring true today.
    Many myths and legends about impotence, born of ignorance thousands of years ago, still influence our sexual culture. Primitive cultures believed that male virility was closely intertwined with power, wealth and domination.    It is therefore not surprising that beliefs still exist in the different cultures that lack virility, or worse, being powerless is to miss the essence of life. Manhood and the "ability to perform" are inextricably linked, so impotence is considered a "manly."   Although the twentieth century has brought radical changes in gender roles, levels on ethnic, economic, social and cultural rights, sexuality and impotence are still a mystery, secrecy and a good deal of confusion.Myth # 1 - "Real men" do not experience impotence   All men over 30 experience impotence at least once in your life. It is estimated that over 150 million men worldwide have impotence; In fact, reports suggest that this figure could be as high as 300 million or more. Estimate the number is difficult because less than 2 men in 10 seek treatment for impotence problems.   Impotence (or erectile dysfunction) is defined as the inability to produce and maintain an erection sufficient for sexual intercourse. Impotence is not considered such as lack of libido, inability to ejaculate or orgasm, lack of strength or loss of "manhood".Myth # 2 - Impotence is "all in the mind"   Less than 20% of impotence cases have a primary psychological cause. Most men with impotence have an underlying physical condition such as diabetes, heart disease, high blood pressure or prostate cancer. Stress, anxiety and loss of self-esteem are often secondary psychological factors that occur if impotence undiagnosed and untreated.Myth # 3 - Impotence is a natural part of aging   Although it is clear that the chances of experiencing impotence increase with age, this is largely due to the increased risk of having an underlying physical condition such as diabetes, high blood pressure or heart disease. Added to this factor, a number of drugs prescribed for these conditions can cause impotence.Myth # 4 - There is no "cure" for impotence     Although medical science does not come with a "cure" for the permanent impotence, a number of very effective therapies are available. Oral medications such as Viagra revolutionized the treatment of impotence, but against impotence pills do not work for everyone. Other safe and effective treatments include vacuum pumps, injections and penile implants.Once impotence effectively treated, most men are to lead an active and satisfying sex life.Myth # 5 - Impotence is the problem of a man   Both members of a couple may experience problems when impotence is not treated. Often the lack of communication and denial of the problem leads to depression, anxiety and lack of self-esteem for both partners. A tendency to avoid sexual contact can often leave the partner feeling unloved, unattractive and unwanted.Myth # 6 - Impotence is too embarrassing to discuss with anyone   A number of men find it very difficult to talk about any problems they may encounter, especially impotence. Impotence can often be a symptom of an underlying medical condition and not simply "disappear" if left untreated.Once the disease is diagnosed, appropriate treatment can begin immediately and the problem can be mitigated.Myth # 7 - Men should know about sex   The general consensus of opinion is that men instinctively know how to have sex. But clinical studies confirm that impotence can result from a lack of knowledge and ignorance about the "mechanics" of sex.   A common misconception is that sex is a simple and easy process for men. Not true. Many men have difficulty discuss the issue and ask questions reveal their ignorance and lack of knowledge and possibly threaten their masculinity. Media images of the virile male in action only serve to further isolate people who do not understand "the basics."   Talk to a specialist or therapist to quickly erase misconceptions and help overcome the problems caused by lack of knowledge adviser.Myth # 8 - Men always want sex   The myth that men are always "ready, willing and able" is simply not true. Commonly perceived misconception of the "dominant male" has been proven to damage the sexual, physical and psychological well-being of a number of men.   A recent Swedish study on sexuality and marriage performed in 286 couples of different ages found that men who perceived the "dominant male" were more likely to experience temporary impotence if sex was requested by their partner when were not in the mood.   Healthy relationships should be about equal partnerships, good communication and respect for the feelings of two people. It is not uncommon for a couple who want more frequent sexual activity and sexual desires can fluctuate between partners and at different times. Discuss these issues reasonably and rationally so that each partner understands the needs of the other helps maintain a healthy and happy sex.