Now here is a problem that is bound to stir up some controversy ... or at least some interest! ED or erectile dysfunction (fancy phrase for weak erections or just a general erection problem) is much more common than statistics show. Why?
Because it's embarrassing! The average man will not proud to admit you have a problem getting an erection. The ability to have good strong erections is a very simple way in which men measure their masculinity and self esteem.
After all, that is what makes us men, right? As anyone with an erection problem will tell you (although those who support the course) there is nothing more frustrating and / or annoying as not being able to "get it" when the time comes. (No pun intended)
They made us feel like failures, we are ashamed ... well ... we feel like "less of a man." Unfortunately, an erection problem may be due to a combination of complex problems. On the other hand, it can sometimes be due to a simple question!
This is what makes this complex ED condition even for health professionals to "fix". Sometimes it is difficult to isolate what is actually the cause. The causes can range from libido problems, nutritional deficiencies, disability, illness, real or even psychological problems. Because it is so difficult to isolate, this can lead men to treat all kinds of "remedies" without really trying to find the cause of erection problem.
Believe it or not, one of the most common causes can be just psychological. In other words, your erection problem may be in your head! I remember when I thought I had the classic problem of erection for many years and was convinced that I was developing ED. (Although I was only in his thirties!)
But looking back, I should have realized it was all due to psychological factors.
1. He started to arrive on time that my relationship had sunk to an all time low.
2. I had no erection problem when I wanted to masturbate.
3. My libido was still as strong as ever.
It is only when trying to be intimate with my girlfriend my "erection problem" could show your face! Of course at that time I never put two and two and tried to take all kinds of "cures" for her.
They never worked because the cause of my problem is not with medical or physical problem is due! It was only after my relationship was over and I had a short term relationship with someone else, I realized that I did not really have erection problem!
My erections were so big and strong and hard had never been. The thing is that my ex and I had decided to give him another chance and we rekindled our relationship. My "erection problem" reappeared immediately! It did not take a genius (or doctor) then I realize that my problems were obviously due to all mental echoes around the relationship.
The fact is that I felt inadequate in my relationship for many different reasons. Add to that the fact that it seemed at the time that my girlfriend was never really in me. (Towards the end of the relationship, when my erection problem appeared.)
These combined with other "relationship problems" created a sense of inadequacy and insecurity. They added to intense pressure to "interpret" what really makes my problem worse erection. In surveys that I have made over the past four years, it seems that the relationship problems are a small but very significant cause of erection problems.
Five years ago, (many years after the relationship) I really developed ED "real" and the problem for me was trying to find a natural solution for this.
Since I had a very difficult time reconcile with drug use (for obvious reasons) for my situation, I've looked everywhere for something that was affordable but effective, while at the same time be natural.
Let me tell you, the search was not easy ... what with the "snake oil cures", pills, potions, lotions, sprays, oils, patches, mechanical devices, vacuum cleaners, pumps "medically approved and recommended "herbs and even hypnosis programs that are there.
So how do you find the ones that really work? Well, that's a whole other article!
Good luck!
Because it's embarrassing! The average man will not proud to admit you have a problem getting an erection. The ability to have good strong erections is a very simple way in which men measure their masculinity and self esteem.
After all, that is what makes us men, right? As anyone with an erection problem will tell you (although those who support the course) there is nothing more frustrating and / or annoying as not being able to "get it" when the time comes. (No pun intended)
They made us feel like failures, we are ashamed ... well ... we feel like "less of a man." Unfortunately, an erection problem may be due to a combination of complex problems. On the other hand, it can sometimes be due to a simple question!
This is what makes this complex ED condition even for health professionals to "fix". Sometimes it is difficult to isolate what is actually the cause. The causes can range from libido problems, nutritional deficiencies, disability, illness, real or even psychological problems. Because it is so difficult to isolate, this can lead men to treat all kinds of "remedies" without really trying to find the cause of erection problem.
Believe it or not, one of the most common causes can be just psychological. In other words, your erection problem may be in your head! I remember when I thought I had the classic problem of erection for many years and was convinced that I was developing ED. (Although I was only in his thirties!)
But looking back, I should have realized it was all due to psychological factors.
1. He started to arrive on time that my relationship had sunk to an all time low.
2. I had no erection problem when I wanted to masturbate.
3. My libido was still as strong as ever.
It is only when trying to be intimate with my girlfriend my "erection problem" could show your face! Of course at that time I never put two and two and tried to take all kinds of "cures" for her.
They never worked because the cause of my problem is not with medical or physical problem is due! It was only after my relationship was over and I had a short term relationship with someone else, I realized that I did not really have erection problem!
My erections were so big and strong and hard had never been. The thing is that my ex and I had decided to give him another chance and we rekindled our relationship. My "erection problem" reappeared immediately! It did not take a genius (or doctor) then I realize that my problems were obviously due to all mental echoes around the relationship.
The fact is that I felt inadequate in my relationship for many different reasons. Add to that the fact that it seemed at the time that my girlfriend was never really in me. (Towards the end of the relationship, when my erection problem appeared.)
These combined with other "relationship problems" created a sense of inadequacy and insecurity. They added to intense pressure to "interpret" what really makes my problem worse erection. In surveys that I have made over the past four years, it seems that the relationship problems are a small but very significant cause of erection problems.
Five years ago, (many years after the relationship) I really developed ED "real" and the problem for me was trying to find a natural solution for this.
Since I had a very difficult time reconcile with drug use (for obvious reasons) for my situation, I've looked everywhere for something that was affordable but effective, while at the same time be natural.
Let me tell you, the search was not easy ... what with the "snake oil cures", pills, potions, lotions, sprays, oils, patches, mechanical devices, vacuum cleaners, pumps "medically approved and recommended "herbs and even hypnosis programs that are there.
So how do you find the ones that really work? Well, that's a whole other article!
Good luck!
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